recently asked me how many contacts he had in the blackberry, I counted 200, then the thread of the conversation went that I have about 500 contacts or more facebook (with cleaning included), and asked if I knew all those friends, actually yes. However it is not how many friends you may have, because if a celebrity to the case we must have thousands, but the quality of the moments I shared with everyone.
I mention all this because we have the bad habit of measuring everything, putting grams, kilos, meters, or liters to everything, including intangibles such as friendship. We measure friendship by the number of times that we are, joke or directions.
I think that friendship is a sentimental bond that exceeds the time and frequency with which we are, I think it is to have something in common with someone and discuss it for long.
Additionally, good society as we are, we put a sense of ownership and commitment to friendship, turning it into a sort of open marriage without civil rights, and so we are jealous of those who do not belong to us, pretending that these people who we like and with whom memorable moments we are always there and when are not we feel betrayed.
not accept that our friend has new friends, and we change with new friends and hate to "get us out the ass" as they say here. Because we do not accept that friendship has no discretion, is born among those who least expect, and even the hardest and most difficult moments, even in the most despicable beings, Hitler had to be good friends.
understand that man is a being of skin, that if we do not have near the brain discards memories and feelings and recycled into other people, but also to store special moments with them and retain the best friendships, then friendship ends up being a piece of meat that goes into the freezer to preserve it and is removed when those old, forgotten, abandoned and good friends return.
I have many acquaintances, some buddies, a few friends, and counted true friends, and all of them know and they can always count on me, even when you no longer see.
friendships I have made along the way, but certainly not stopped being friends, 'm glad because I always regret their successes and failures, and despite what happens is that it at least once a year I will have dinner with them, to renew the bond that unites us laugh again and remember why we are friends or siblings.
Everyone who knows me and I want and I want ... Thanks for existing.
