From 1 to 10, what is your favorite number? Mine is 3, the relationship with my birth month and my birthday, and I have a very convenient with the number 2, I do not like is the number most exclusive of all, does not allow anyone else, is a closed circuit, has the right to admission, in short is a 2. I say convenient because it is very rich when we are 2, two seem to be enough to create a life, two is what it takes to raise a family, two people is the prerequisite for getting married.
Life revolves around 2: night and day, good and bad, up and down, left or right, male or female, among others, the world was made for two people - that these two fucked up, is another matter - but world was perfect for these two people, maybe a little big for those two, but it was the original plan.
My conflict with two starts because paradoxically observed a more individualistic world, made of studio apartments and offices closed, a world full of small cars and even a growth in demand for motorcycles, a world of single mothers and to parents including twin singles, little by little the man has lost hope of living in pairs.
The world is no longer two, that have been commissioned psychic, astrologers, therapists, architects, dreams, etc., selling the idea that power is in yourself, you do not need anyone, that life is for living, that everything has its time and above all God's timing is perfect. So perfect that we stayed on the shelf, women are the train passes, we lose the will to live as a couple and since then it's too late and unlucky with the story be marry to have children and so on, ending in an imminent planned loneliness.
I'm not saying we should rush out and find the ideal partner, rather I believe we must search for it or wait longer, just because the world is apparently two I think we should turn our gaze to other things and enjoy them. Let's look ugly in the thirties, the forties gay, the fat that is not fixed, a divorcee with 2 kids in tow, the intellectual who enjoys life to the hippie anti-sexism and even without buxom teenager, life not a man or woman next to cook rich.
annoys me having to believe that life has meaning if we have someone on the side, or worse, bothers me I want to sell the idea rather is meaningless if we do not have someone at hand, and under this premise will pressed with questions like: and you when you're getting married? And you do not think having kids? Remembering all the time are not the common denominator, but a community aparte de gente desafortunada en ese aspecto.
La vida es una sola, y es para disfrutarla, y tener una relación es una de tantas formas de hacerlo, y reconozco que tiene un gustico especial pero no lo suficiente como para desgastarla esperando tener una probadita.
La vida no es para vivirla uno solo, tampoco para vivirla de a dos, es para compartir con miles de personas: familia, amigos, conocidos, conquistas, etc.
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